A lot has happened since the last post. Reread some old posts and unpublished posts taking a trip down the memory lane. I don't know how I got through some of my life events that were filled with loss, unmet expectations, and grief. What I do know is that I am still standing. Today, I am and feel content. I feel centered in my current life situation and feel safe in the relationships I choose to be in. I have let go of the feelings of obligation in my relationships. In a way, I suppose I changed my expectations on each of those relationships that were causing me so much stress and pain.
Life Lessons I learned from my 20s:
1. Get used to saying "No." Don't let anyone else make you feel bad for saying no. You don't owe them an explanation either.
2. Be the person you want to be regardless of who the other person is.
3. Say Yes wholeheartedly to the things you wish and desire then follow through.
4. Be kind to yourself. When you are kind to yourself, you notice others that are also kind. It opens your eyes to the kindness in the world.
5. Everything will be ok. Even when things are upside down, time lets you heal the open wounds. You might never fully get over it and there may be scars--but it will pass, and it time, you will learn to be ok again.
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